woensdag 1 oktober 2014

On Housing and Staying Busy

Every reader, as he reads, is actually the reader of himself. The writer's work is only a kind of optical instrument he provides the reader so he can discern what he might never have seen in himself without this book. The reader's recognition in himself of what the book says is the proof of the book's truth.
-Marcel Proust


Hey guys,

Just a little update to let you all know how I'm doing down here in Belgium (a few of you have asked for it). I've found a flat, right in the centre of Leuven. Signed for it on Monday, paid the deposit and my first month of rent today, collecting the keys on Friday and moving on Sunday. Yes, Belgian bureaucracy is a pain in the ass. I'm moving my stuff there on Sunday but I probably won't be moving in just yet, as they're still working on the internet (something I really need for work).

It's not perfect—far from it, in fact. But it's nice and central and the lease is only for a year and it's spacious enough just for me. I mean, I literally used to live in a tent—I don't need much. At least I'll have a place of my own, for the time being, and I'll get to live close to my friends, which is one of the main reasons why I left London in the first place. A one-year lease also means I won't be moving back for at least 12 months, so I deeply apologise to those few of you who were still gunning for that.

I still needed a bunch of stuff for the flat, but luckily, our local variant of Home Depot is closing one of its flagship stores and all of the articles were 70% percent off. Which is why I managed to buy an ironing board (because all adults own their own ironing board), a 12-piece set of kitchen tools complete with an art-deco rack (including a pizza slicer, which is vital considering the fact I eat about five pizzas/week), plates, a 24-piece cutlery set, coffee mugs (I'm still buying the Troy and Abed in the Morning one), an oven plate, two separate cooking knives and an alarm clock for 44 euros (I'm guessing it's about 35 pounds, or maybe 60 US dollars). Now all I need is some bed sheets, drapes, a microwave oven and a bin.

For those of you who frequent Leuven: My place is right at the Oude Markt and I have a spare couch, so if you're ever in need of  somewhere to sleep, please let me know. I've yet to test the couch, but I'll be sure to let you know and provide you with a sleeping bag/plaid.

Now, onto something else. De Morgen's Fernand van Damme (in Dutch) recently posted an entry detailing how being busy is the new cool for 20-somethings. He talked about how we all seem to stuff our planners as full as possible with work, breakfast dates and city trips and tried to link it to how we're scared of being alone, and the conclusions our minds may reach when we're forced to contemplate on that factoid. It's worth the read, if you speak Dutch, and you can find the piece by clicking here.

He's not entirely successful in trying to draw his conclusion ( it gets awfully tacky), but he does make a fair point, and I do believe that plenty of you will recognise what it is he's writing about. I know I've noticed it in myself. Where I once used to live life without a day-planner, teaching surfing and largely enjoying the quiet moments in between, I now find myself trying to cram as much work and activities into my days in a feeble attempt to escape the fact that when I'm not doing stuff, my mind tends to wander into dangerous places. And I've heard the same message from plenty of you, or recognised the behaviour. I'm not judging anyone or trying to tell you why that may be wrong or right, but it is something worth thinking about. When you're not busy working or going to that concert or meeting your middle-school science partner for cocktails, that is.

I guess that's it for now. Like I said, short update on how I'm doing (technically it's about what I'm doing, I suppose). It looks like I'm truly here to stay, for now at least. I'm not entirely sure how I feel about that, but we always feel like that right after we've made a big decision. And that first night of drinks at De Weerelt will surely sway my mind.

Have a good one guys.



Song of the Day: Charles Bradley - Where Do We Go From Here

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